Like many people in his community in central Mali, he saw it as a tradition passed down through generations—one that should be preserved.
Today, he walks from village to village with a very different message: no tradition should come at the expense of a girl's health, rights or future.
His story goes beyond one man's personal transformation. Across West and Central Africa, female genital mutilation remains deeply rooted in several countries. Mali has one of the highest prevalence rates in the region, with an estimated 89 per cent of women having undergone the practice. In places where social norms are deeply entrenched, change often begins with trusted voices from within the community.
"I used to believe that this practice was part of our traditions and needed to be preserved," he says.
Nothing suggested that he would one day become one of the people advocating for its abandonment.
His perspective began to change after taking part in training sessions, workshops and community dialogues organized through the Men and Boys as Agents of Change project, implemented by UN Women with financial support from the Government of Germany. As he listened to different experiences and learned about the physical, psychological and social consequences of FGM, he began questioning beliefs he had never challenged before. He also came to understand that lasting change cannot simply be imposed—it grows through dialogue, trust and community ownership.
"The trainings supported by UN Women with the support of Germany transformed my understanding of female genital mutilation. I learned about the physical, psychological and social consequences that this practice imposes on girls. Today, I regularly organize awareness-raising sessions with families, religious leaders, young people and women," he explains.
Today, Sidi spends much of his time talking with parents, religious leaders, young people and women across his community. Rather than telling people what to think, he encourages conversations about what it means to protect girls and challenges long-held beliefs through dialogue.
Little by little, those conversations are making a difference.
"I can see change: more parents are asking questions, several families are abandoning female genital mutilation and discussions about protecting girls have become more open. I am convinced that protecting girls today means investing in the future of our entire community."
Sidi's journey is part of a broader movement taking place across the regions of Mopti and Gao. With support from the Government of Germany, UN Women works alongside religious and traditional leaders, women, young people and committed men to lead community-driven initiatives that prevent violence against women and girls and challenge harmful social norms.
To date, fifty community initiatives have been implemented across the two regions, while eight community dialogue platforms provide spaces for people to discuss girls' rights, their protection and ways to prevent gender-based violence.
For Sidi, abandoning a harmful practice is about more than leaving a tradition behind. It is about giving girls the opportunity to grow up safely, stay in school and shape their own futures.
His journey shows that some of the most meaningful changes happen when those who once upheld harmful social norms become the people helping transform them.
Sidi Haidara knows traditions do not change overnight. But every conversation creates an opportunity for reflection. Every family that chooses to protect its daughters helps write a different future from the one generations before them inherited.
In Mopti and Gao, these conversations are showing that lasting change does not always begin with a new law or policy. More often, it begins when communities themselves decide to imagine a different future for their girls.
Distributed by APO Group on behalf of UN Women - Africa.
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